It may be important to love someone the way you think the person would like to be loved but it is more important to love someone the way the person would actually want to be loved. Know the person's love language and respond thus.
God is more willing to communicate with you than you are willing to hear from Him. He is ready, proactive and willing to lead you. Instead of emphasising your own ability to hear God, focus on God's ability to communicate.
Unknown to me for a long time, all the answers I ever needed were already available to me. I didn’t realise I had the treasure.
Knowledge is important. You can't make best use of what you don't even know you own.
Don't settle, grow!